Summary
Overview
Work History
Education
Skills
Specialized Trainings
Board Memberships & Committees
Publications & Media Appearances
Professional Development
Languages
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Ani Spooner

Ani Spooner

Ottawa,Canada

Summary

Passionate and experienced neurodivergent coach and social justice advocate with a robust background in supporting neurodivergent individuals or their families with emotional regulation, interpersonal dynamics, skills building and community resources. Skilled in Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS), and Non-Violent Communication (NVC), with over 20 years of experience developing and facilitating educational programs, workshops, and family support systems. Dedicated to empowering clients through compassionate, evidence-based interventions and advocacy in both English and French.

Overview

25
25
years of professional experience

Work History

Neurodivergent Coach

Big Emotions Coaching
06.2021 - Current
  • Deliver bilingual coaching to parents and adults with ADHD, Autism, and emotional dysregulation, utilizing DBT, CPS and NVC to promote self-compassion and healthy relationships
  • Develop personalized coaching plans addressing complex client needs, including anger management, extreme emotional dysregulation, and relationship challenges
  • Offer sliding-scale services to enhance accessibility
  • Create resources and worksheets to support client self-care and self-regulation

ADHD Parenting Coach & Adult ADHD Coach

Positive Kids
08.2021 - Current
  • Conduct individual coaching sessions, emphasizing mindfulness, validation, radical acceptance, and emotional regulation skills
  • Developed and authored an 8-session one-on-one Parenting Coaching Program for families of neurodivergent children, and provided training and supervision to clinicians to effectively implement DBT and CPS-based strategies within their coaching sessions
  • Designed, authored and now facilitate a 4 week Parenting Workshop to help parents understand the ADHD and autistic brain and learn coping strategies for raising neurodivergent children
  • Coordinate communication with schools, social workers, and mental health professionals to advocate for clients' needs

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Trainer

Ottawa Network for Borderline Personality Disorder (ON-BPD)
04.2021 - Current
  • Co-facilitate workshops for family members of individuals with BPD, teaching DBT skills such as mindfulness, validation, and emotion regulation techniques
  • Organize class materials, slide presentations, and contribute to in class updates based on the latest evidence-based DBT research
  • Engage in ongoing professional development to ensure up-to-date skills in DBT and emotional dysregulation

NVC Compassionate Communication Coach/Trainer

Self-employed
09.2009 - 12.2021
  • Led workshops on NVC, focusing on empathy, effective requests, sharing power in family life with an awareness of power dynamics
  • Supported participants in identifying feelings and needs to build compassion and foster communication
  • Created tailored workshop content to address unique participant needs, promoting self-awareness and effective interpersonal interactions

Workshop Facilitator/Regional Organizer

Women's College Hospital
11.1999 - 07.2003
  • Co-facilitated workshops and support groups for women with disabilities, promoting self-advocacy and community integration through empowerment programs
  • Collaborated with interdisciplinary teams to design program content and enhance accessibility and impact of services
  • Acted as project consultant for workshop implementation and outreach strategies, strengthening community relationships and support networks

Education

Master of Social Work -

Wilfrid Laurier University
Kitchener, ON
12.2026

Bachelor of Arts -

University of Ottawa
Ottawa, ON
12.2020

Skills

    Specialized Training and Certifications

  • DBT Trainer, Family Connections, Sashbear Foundation 16-Hour Leadership Training Apr 2021 – Present
  • Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) Training, Dr Ross Greene 12-Hour Training Aug 2021
  • Non-Violent Communication (NVC) Trainer, Gina Cenciose Parent Peer Leadership Program Sep 2008 – Jul 2009
  • Board Memberships & Committee Involvement

    Board Director & Outreach Committee Member, Ottawa Network for Borderline Personality Disorder (ON-BPD), Jun 2023 – Present

  • Collaborate on outreach initiatives to raise awareness on Chronic Emotion Dysregulation (CED) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
  • Develop and deliver educational presentations for community stakeholders
  • Serve on the NAWG ON-BPD Outreach Program Committee to raise awareness about Chronic Emotion Dysregulation (CED) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in educational settings in Ottawa
  • Board Director AboutFace, Mar 2020 – Mar 2024

  • Contributed to strategic planning, policy development, and fiscal management
  • Led fundraising initiatives and served on the Fund Development and Scholarship Committees
  • Publications and Media Appearances

  • Public Talk: Wait, is it (just) BPD? Emotional Dysregulation in BPD, ADHD, & Autism – ON-BPD Public Lecture, Jun 12, 2024
  • Article: CBC Point of View, Living with a Facial Difference, Nov 18, 2019
  • Interviews: Various media appearances on CBC, NPR, and iHeartRadio discussing facial differences and advocacy for neurodivergent individuals
  • Professional Development

  • Concurrent Disorders: Ethics and Stigma in Borderline Personality Disorder and Substance Use Disorder, Shawn Fisk, CAPSA, March 16, 2023
  • Feminism, collaboration, and trauma-informed care: What the Violence Against Women (VAW) sector brings to the table, Emma Slaney Gose, MSW RSW, Oct 25, 2022
  • Practical Strategies to Support Your Loved One with Suicidl Thaughts, NEABPD & the FC Alumni Institute, Johanna Louie , SEP 13, 2022
  • The Connection Between Grief and Trauma, Dr Frank Anderson and David Kessler, Feb 21, 2023

Specialized Trainings

  • DBT Trainer, Family Connections, Sashbear Foundation, 16-Hour Leadership Training, 04/01/21, Present
  • Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) Training, Dr. Ross Greene, 12-Hour Training, 08/01/21
  • Non-Violent Communication (NVC) Trainer, Gina Cenciose, Parent Peer Leadership Program, 09/01/08, 07/01/09

Board Memberships & Committees

  • Board Director & Outreach Committee Member, Ottawa Network for Borderline Personality Disorder (ON-BPD), 06/01/23, Present, Collaborate on outreach initiatives to raise awareness on Chronic Emotion Dysregulation (CED) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)., Develop and deliver educational presentations for community stakeholders., Serve on the NAWG ON-BPD Outreach Program Committee to raise awareness about Chronic Emotion Dysregulation (CED) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) in educational settings in Ottawa.
  • Board Director, AboutFace, 03/01/20, 03/01/24, Contributed to strategic planning, policy development, and fiscal management., Led fundraising initiatives and served on the Fund Development and Scholarship Committees.

Publications & Media Appearances

  • Public Talk: Wait, is it (just) BPD? Emotional Dysregulation in BPD, ADHD, & Autism, ON-BPD Public Lecture, 06/12/24
  • Article: CBC Point of View, Living with a Facial Difference, 11/18/19
  • Interviews: Various media appearances on CBC, NPR, and iHeartRadio discussing facial differences and advocacy for neurodivergent individuals

Professional Development

  • Concurrent Disorders: Ethics and Stigma in Borderline Personality Disorder and Substance Use Disorder, Shawn Fisk, CAPSA, 03/16/23
  • Feminism, collaboration, and trauma-informed care: What the Violence Against Women (VAW) sector brings to the table, Emma Slaney Gose, MSW RSW, 10/25/22
  • Practical Strategies to Support Your Loved One with Suicidal Thoughts, NEABPD & the FC Alumni Institute, Johanna Louie, 09/13/22
  • The Connection Between Grief and Trauma, Dr. Frank Anderson and David Kessler, 02/21/23

Languages

English
Native or Bilingual
French
Native or Bilingual

Timeline

ADHD Parenting Coach & Adult ADHD Coach

Positive Kids
08.2021 - Current

Neurodivergent Coach

Big Emotions Coaching
06.2021 - Current

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Trainer

Ottawa Network for Borderline Personality Disorder (ON-BPD)
04.2021 - Current

NVC Compassionate Communication Coach/Trainer

Self-employed
09.2009 - 12.2021

Workshop Facilitator/Regional Organizer

Women's College Hospital
11.1999 - 07.2003

Bachelor of Arts -

University of Ottawa

Master of Social Work -

Wilfrid Laurier University
Ani Spooner